Ez should be 44 today. He made it to 40, which was longer than anyone expected at the time, and yet way too short by any calculation. Ok, so he got to the top of the hill without having to go over, as they say we do after 40. But the thing is, Ez couldn’t wait to get older.
Today would have been Ezra’s 43rd birthday. The weather in NYC is the kind he liked the least- wet and unseasonably warm, yesterday’s snow melting into gray city slush. I imagine he would have spent the day in his shop, determined to make something beautiful out of it. In imagining this, I feel his distance. Not his absence, as I have felt so intensely over the last two and half years, but the space-time between then and now, him and me, us and this. I suppose that’s what happens after some number of moons and trips around the sun, especially in relation to a traveller like Ez. But I have struggled to make sense of this particular flavor of pain, much less move through it with any grace.
Today I found Ez’s 40th birthday card, the last card I gave him. In it I admitted that I was having a hard time celebrating his birthday, that for me it felt more bitter than sweet. But that I had no trouble celebrating him or us, and wanted to do that…
Today Ez should be 42 and still I feel more bitter than sweet. I don’t want to memorialize him, I want him back. It has been a little more than a year and a half since he died, but my sadness, rage, and disorientation only grow. I become only more aware of how much I loved him, how much I’ve lost, how lost I feel. But when I found this card today, it brought me back, if just for a moment, and made me want to celebrate him. Here’s what I wrote, which still feels right:
A year ago today, on his 40th birthday, Ezra posted this “lonely photo.” It came at the end of a blog post that recalled a long list of things he’d been able to do that year, despite his grim prognosis, and probably due in part to his choice to refuse chemo and to embrace palliative care. He also described feeling untethered, given that his birthday and the end of 2013 had seemed like it would be his last horizon. Ez lived five more months, during which he made many more objects and dinners, and took many more photos.
Dear “gang,” as Ez used to say,
Thank you for your interest and patience as we’ve felt our way through the process of finding new homes for Ezra’s tools and machines – a process that took a course of its own after starting off here.
After years of watching Ez carefully and passionately set up and use his shop, it has been extremely sad, to say the least, to see it taken apart. But, with lots of help (especially from Sam and Rosko), parts of it are now being or are soon be used in the brilliant shops of Seth Rosko, Dale Lord (of Recycle-A-Bicycle and Crooked Hill Cycles, coming soon), Eric Monasterio (builder of beautiful custom racks and more), Jamie Swan, Benjamin, Harlem Built, Samuel D. Newman, Caldwell Sport, and others. Contents from the bike room, for those of you who knew of it, have also been spread far and wide, mostly via Recycle-A-Bicycle, and with help from Eric, Dale, Caroline Samponaro, and Todd Miller.
For anyone still interested in wood, metal, and bike stuff, please stay tuned. A good deal is gone or spoken for, but plenty remains, which we’ll try to post here soon. If you’ve written to Sam or me about particular items and haven’t heard back, please forgive and try again if you like. I’m sorry we aren’t better organized, but it’s a lot to keep track of.
For anyone interested in photo equipment, please see below for a list of items and prices (big thanks to Sam and Matthew for your help with this). If you have any questions or are ready to purchase, please email me at firstname.lastname@example.org. Arrangements for payment can be made in person or via Paypal. .
Thank you again to everyone who has helped (including Megan Ann, web-maven) and followed along.
|Pentax K1000 SE||$130||An updated version of the camera Ez learned to shoot film on high school|
|Hasselblad 500C/M||$340||A classic, used for camera Ezra's return to the square format|
|Hasselblad XPAN||$1,200||One of Ez's late favorites, inspired by Jeff Bridges|
|Nikon F100||$225||Ezra's favorite AF film SLR|
|Nikon D800||$1,600||Ezra's favorite digital camera, used to take many photos and videos|
|Canon EOS 20D||$120|
|Hasselblad Distagon 60mm f3.5||$400|
|Hasselbald Planar 80mm f2.8||$399|
|Hasselblad 45mm f4 (XPAN)||$450|
|Nikkor AF 35-70mm f2.8||$200||Used for many Nova Scotia wedding photos|
|Nikkor AF 28mm f2.8D||$150||One of Ezra's original Nikon AF lenses and a favorite focal length|
|Nikkor AF 35mm f2D>||$250|
|Nikkor AF 24mm f2.8D>||$275|
|Nikkor AF 60mm F2.8D Micro||$250|
|Nikkor AF 85mm F1.8D||$280|
|Nikon AF-S 50mm F1.4G||$367|
|Vivitar 28-210mm F3.5-5.6||$35|
|Pentax K 50mm F2||$30||Ezra used a Pentax 50mm when learning to shoot B&W film in high school|
|Canon AF 17-85mm F4-5.6||$180|
|Hasselblad 120 Film Back||$125|
|EDITING AND PRINTING|
|Printer - Epson Stylus Pro 3880||$500||What Ezra used to produce prints|
|Scanner - Epson Perfection V700||$300|
|Monitor- NEC Multi Sync PA271||$600|
If Ezra wasn’t in his shop working, he was thinking about and wanting to be in his shop working- and whether making bikes, furniture, pill flasks, photographs, or dinner, he was just as much if not more interested in the tools and processes as he was in the final products. These tools need new homes.
Over the next few weeks and months, we’ll be posting for sale various items from Ezra’s wood, metal, and photo shops. We hope others will find them as useful and relevant to their work as they were to Ezra.
Items now for sale include: